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OBJECTIVE: To examine parents' communication with their children about the diagnosis and initial treatment of breast cancer in the mother. DESIGN: Qualitative interview study within a cross-sectional cohort. SETTING: Two breast cancer treatment centers. PARTICIPANTS: 32 women with stage I or stage II breast cancer with 56 school-aged children. Main outcome measures Semistructured interview regarding timing and extent of communication with children about the diagnosis and initial treatment of the mother's illness, reasons for talking to children or withholding information, and help available and requested from health professionals. RESULTS: Women were most likely to begin talking to their children after their diagnosis had been confirmed by biopsy, but a few waited until after surgery or said nothing at all. Family discussion did not necessarily include mention of cancer. There was considerable consistency in the reasons given for either discussing or not discussing the diagnosis. The most common reason for not communicating was to avoid children's questions, particularly those about death. Although most women had helpful discussion with a physician concerning their illness, few were offered help with talking to their children; many would have liked help, particularly the opportunity for both parents to talk to a health professional with experience in understanding and talking to children. CONCLUSION: Parents diagnosed with cancer or other serious illnesses should be offered help to think about whether, what, and how to tell their children and about what children can understand, especially as they may well be struggling themselves to come to terms with their illness.

Original publication

DOI

10.1136/ewjm.173.6.385

Type

Journal article

Journal

West J Med

Publication Date

12/2000

Volume

173

Pages

385 - 389

Keywords

Adolescent, Adult, Breast Neoplasms, Child, Child, Preschool, Communication, Female, Humans, Interviews as Topic, London, Male, Middle Aged, Mother-Child Relations, Observer Variation, Social Support